prioritize yourself!!

We tend to prioritise every other thing than ourselves.

Isn't it ??

I think from centuries women is doing this only.

Forgetting to Prioritize herself.

But why we tend to do this ??

Is someone else seeing that ..women

As a 

Mother cuts her wings to fly for family.

For her children.

A newly married girl 

Who always dreamt to fly high in th open sky restricts herself for her new family.

If we keep on looking then there are so many 

Examples around us ..in our own house ..where women always forgets to prioritise herself before other things ..the things which might leave her at one point of time.

And 

When she will starts to think about herself..at that time..

She will be again stopped by 

"सांसारिक बेड़ियां"

Sometimes I feel ..as if we are tied to some invisible chains of this so called samaaj..world ..which doesn't let us to come out of it.

Women

As a newly married..thinks about her family..she tends to get adjusted in the new family and in this process starts to forget herself.

As a mother child will be her priority..as soon as you get married..next question will be when are you planning..but when we give birth ..no body comes near you to share your responsibility..so that you can resume your work...so we tend to leave our jobs.

As  a wife ..we cut out own thoughts..we tend to forget our own personality..to adjust in his family..he wnats you to look after his family as if we don't have our own family.

Oh ..god ..when that time will come when we will cut out invisible chains .., बेड़ी..and we will prioritise ourself ..our own self. 

When will that time comes when we will learn that prioritising ourselves is not selfishness.

Not at all my dear!!

fighter of your own !!

Will there be any one who will come and fight for you??

Will someone will stand for your rights ??

Will someone will fight for your dreams??

Tell me guys..

Who will be that someone for us ??

My dears 

That is only and only "YOU"

No one else will come and fight for you.

No one !!

No one!!

Is standing for your dreams is against our so called sanskars??

These sanskars which make all the .. discipline wale rules only for women ..but not men.

We must voice out when our self respect is hurt..

When someone tries to pull you down.

We must voice out ..

Shouldn't we ??

Theme reveal post 2022

This is the first time I am taking up this a2z challenge of blogchatter.

I have been following blogchatter..but never knew about this challenge.

Recently one of my friend who is a parenting blogger have posted about her theme reveal.

This clicked my mind as i was looking for an opportunity which can provide me a platform.

Then what ..i got registered for this challenge and then i read indetail about this challenge without wasting time.

Blogchatter team has always been very supportive.Always available to attend all your queries.

Yesterday I had a chance to attend their Instagram live session , clearing all the doubts.

I am excited to be a part of the challenge where I can get the chance to interact and read about many things about which i might not be aware.

I am an engineer who  turned towards History after my UPSC attempts.

So my topic will be something on which i would enjoy to research and write.

My topic is about 

Women  in History...there are so many women who were no less than men.But our they failed to find a place equivalent to male rulers in history.

Thet were brave as their male counterparts.

 

I will writing in accordance with the blogchatter theme of a2z .. hopefully i may be able to complete in an alphabetical order.

I am very excited to be part of this.

This is in accordance..to a2z challenge of blogchatter.hyperlink to blogchatter is  

https://www.theblogchatter.com/

Little Moments of life!!

We all are very busy running to achieve our big goals that we tend to forget to enjoy the little moments which comes on the way to reach our ultimate goal.

By the what is our ultimate goal ??

Is it earning lot of money....after earning that we will enjoy our Little moments .. isn't it??

What is the guarantee that we will be happy and will sit peacefully to enjoy and capture little moments???

Will these Little moments which we observe in our every day passage od life ...will be returning back ??

When we all will be finding that peace ..to sit and enjoy little moments of life with our loved ones ??

You all might be thinking that ..what are these little moments about ??

Well

Little moments may be different for different people.

Some of the little moments of my every day life ..are 

i love watching this scene ..my phone will have most of such photos.

This cat which roams on my terrace!! I love watching her.

colors of life.

i click picture of the things which i really enjoy.

That enjoyment comes from inside.

This beautiful tree..giving deep message about life.

I just wants to sit forgetting about whole world and enjoy each and every little thing of life.

I would like to ask each and everyone of you that do we really have time to sit and look at every little thing .every little moment of life ??

women's day special!

 Do we need any one day to embrace womenhood??

Do we need a day to celebrate the glorious mess we are ??

First of all wishing all the wonderful ladies A Happy International Women's day.

Let us all  keep growing and helping each other grow and spread love and peace.

I personally believe when women help the other women grow instead of pulling each other down then only a house(which is her smaller world) will be a happy place for her,where she will be able to open her wings to fly,to achieve her dreams.

We keep on saying each other ..just ignore the people who don't let you grow.

but 

How far is it possible for a women to let go off her loved ones who poses a hindarance in  her dreams.

A mother who couldn't work because of her kids responsibilities and when she wants to start her career.she need support of her kids and Husband.

It's not at all easy for a women to spread her wings if her family is against her dreams.

Can't we support mother in opening up her wings??

Can't we support a wife in achieving her dreams??

What does she need ??

Does she need an expensive gift??

Does she need lot of money??

Does she need golden jewellery??

Does she need diamonds??

A Big" NO"

 

Then what does she need??

She just need that support...

A support from a husband.

A support from her family.

A support from her in law's.

A support from her kids.

A support from every member of the family.

A support from the "other women"

A support from society

She just need that push,... support to 

"dream" 

 to open her wings.

Give her wings!!!!

Hoping that every woman finds that support..that push!!

Then only we will be able to celebrate women's day in real sense.

Festival aura!

Festival is the medium to bring whole family together.

Aren't they??

Festivals have their different aura.They brings all the members together how much ever busy we all are in different fields of life.They bring us together.They remind us happiness lies in unity.

Festivals have fun when celebrated with loved ones.

They bring us laughter,love,fun and mamy more.

Today on mahashivratri,every one of is came together inspite of our busy schedule.

This is one of my favourite festival which reminds us of love, sacrifice and patience.

I think shiva-parvati bond gives us teachings of these things.

Me and my mom got up early and got everything ready for pooja.

I always loved to make garlands.so i did that ..my baby pet was also with me in everything what we were doing.

Seeing all these ,one by one every member of the family joined us in celebration.

Kids,they have much more excitement than elders as they get to eat lot of sweets and kahaniya.our rich cultural heritage ki kahaniya..stories about our festival.

India is very rich in its cultural heritage.which need to be further transfered to the younger generation.

Every festival have its own place as they play an important role in bringing all the family members together.