And That’s Normal

Today went for a dinner with friends I can say colleagues from my previous work place.

And took Tanu my daughter along with me as she might not stay without me with her grand parents.

Init she was playing along with one of my friends daughters.

While playing she suddenly vomited on my friend(a little) as they do after food if we don’t get them do burp.I cleaned it.

As a result that spill left its smell on her clothes although a little bit it was there and I was feeling very inconvenient because of that .

I was thinking the same thing after I came back home as well .

I asked myself am I thinking much ??

Am I a bad mom that I couldn’t make her stay hygienic,neat ??

Is this an awkward situation??

what my friends will be thinking and many such stupid thoughts were coming and going in my mind.

I talked regarding this to my husband who was away from the city today .

He made me to chill and asked not to give much thoughts to such stupid things and it’s absolutely normal when you have a small kids .

You can’t control a 9-10 month baby and can’t ask him/her to behave in a certain manner.

So it’s NORMAL and new mommies don’t need to pay any heed to any such situation and what other’s think and all .

Keep yourself calm and enjoy this phase.

They will grow out of your lap soon.

#normal #baby#motherhood

What after they have gone ?

Pahalgaam attack is seriously a coward attack on tourist who went with lots of hope and dreams to Jammu and Kashmir.

After this attack I seriously couldn’t sleep and had to uninstall my Instagram as I could not see any content related to the incident.I had to call my husband again and again as I couldn’t be at peace.I think many of us had the same feelings ,same thoughts aftermath the attack.

my thoughts wondered around the wife of navy officer Vinay narwal who got married few days back and the couple were in their honeymoon to Kashmir.

many dreams in her eyes and love in their hearts how much they might have a thought about their new life .

Now he has gone but the life will not be same again for her.

somewhere she might be pointed out that she might have convinced him to go for the honeymoon and all .

This Indian soviet still don’t leave any chance to blame the women after her husband is gone.

May be she won’t be accepted by his family and made to responsible for the loss.

Her pain might not be understood and obviously his family’s pain also can be understood by us .its always easier to say !!

लोगों का काम हैं कहना

लोग तो कहेंगे ही

लोगों का काम हैं कहना

पर तू क्या हैं सोचती अपने बारें में

तेरे रोज़ के जो संघर्ष हैं

क्या हर कोई जानता हैं

किन किन हालातो से जूझती हैं तू

क्या यह हर कोई जानता हैं

नहीं यह कोई नहीं जानता

पर मुफ़्तत की सलाह हर कोई देगा

तुझे इन सबको नज़र अंदाज़ करते हुए आगे बढ़ना होगा

ऐसी कई सलाहे दी जाएगी

परंतु तुझे अपना वर्चस्व बनाये रखना ही होगा मेरी जान

अपने आप को खोना नहीं हैं तुझे

यह छोटी छोटी बातें

तुझे जकड़ नहीं सकती

Thoughts of a New Mom !!

The word “Motherhood” itself explains you its meaning ..may be or may not

This Word totally changes the life of a person who choose this path to walk on ..who decides to embrace it or I must say ..may be blessed with this journey.

After becoming a mom I forgot how my life was before it

I forgot every minute detail of the past life for time being

I go blank when someone asks when someone asks me anything ..I seems to be taking time to process the words of the opposite person

And I aloof of what’s happening in the world …my world seems to be surrounded around her …I can say she has become my whole world now

When I look back at the different phases of life ..each and

Phases of Life :

Every phase it’s own importance and that importance will be understood only after that phase has been passed away.

Phase 1:

when we got to know that we are pregnant we both were on cloud nine

Every thing related to this phase has very deep meaning for life ,deep memories for life time.

Phase 2:

During the birth of our baby girl

The moment doctor showed me that Sonu look at her your all pains were worth it my dear

That first will always be imprinted in my heart

Phase 3:

As I see her I will fall in love with her over and over again

I know every phase is different, difficult and what not but it’s just beautiful journey of being a parent , being a mother.

This is my first post after I became mom may be I will take time to come back to my passion for writing

As now my baby girl is keeping me busy so busy that I seriously have no idea what’s happening out of life .

A New Mom !!