Isn't it ??
I think from centuries women is doing this only.
Forgetting to Prioritize herself.
But why we tend to do this ??
Is someone else seeing that ..women
As a
Mother cuts her wings to fly for family.
For her children.
A newly married girl
Who always dreamt to fly high in th open sky restricts herself for her new family.
If we keep on looking then there are so many
Examples around us ..in our own house ..where women always forgets to prioritise herself before other things ..the things which might leave her at one point of time.
And
When she will starts to think about herself..at that time..
She will be again stopped by
"सांसारिक बेड़ियां"
Sometimes I feel ..as if we are tied to some invisible chains of this so called samaaj..world ..which doesn't let us to come out of it.
Women
As a newly married..thinks about her family..she tends to get adjusted in the new family and in this process starts to forget herself.
As a mother child will be her priority..as soon as you get married..next question will be when are you planning..but when we give birth ..no body comes near you to share your responsibility..so that you can resume your work...so we tend to leave our jobs.
As a wife ..we cut out own thoughts..we tend to forget our own personality..to adjust in his family..he wnats you to look after his family as if we don't have our own family.
Oh ..god ..when that time will come when we will cut out invisible chains .., बेड़ी..and we will prioritise ourself ..our own self.
When will that time comes when we will learn that prioritising ourselves is not selfishness.
Not at all my dear!!
I could relate to your post so well. Putting your self first sometimes is so important. Every woman should read this post, think and rwalise for herself
ReplyDeleteyes agree with completely, we women tend to do lots of adjustment after marriage and every time society accept more from us. it is sad but harsh reality of our system.
ReplyDeleteWell, I partly agree to this. It is all about our perspective. If we see is at "बेड़ियाँ" then it will make us feel miserable but if we see it as a new relation that we are getting then our viewpoint will be different. A lot in in our hands. Like giving ourself due respect and time.
ReplyDeleteIt all depends upon our perspective. Keeping a positive attitude towards life will always help us prioritize ourselves and value ourselves with assertion.
ReplyDeleteYa prioritising ourselves becomes a challenge unless we realise that we have to take care of ourselves too. And to what extent. Some people assume that eating and having a roof over their heads is taking care of themselves.
ReplyDeleteमेरी सोच गलत भी हो सकती है पर मुझे लगता है हमें भगवान ने बनाया ही ऐसे हैं हमेशा पहले दूसरों के बारे में सोचना और हमेशा सोचते ही जाना बहुत कम होता है जब औरतें अपने बारे में कुछ करने का सोचती है
ReplyDeletePost marriage women tend to put down their thoughts to look after the family. But this is where there should be a change wherein we put ourselves first and everything else is next
ReplyDeleteWhen priorities shift people tend to loose individuality. We need to choose actions that lifts us and also make others understand what makes us happy. You post will give many people time to think on this topic.
ReplyDeleteIt's important to make sure to keep yourself on top priority. I realised this later and then understood that if we love ourselves, we can spread more love.
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