She has always been very emotional person ...married for two years...Ajay was also married.
She actually never knew what is an ideal brother sister relationship has to be.
She has only seen Ramakrishna sir and Saraswati Didi's bond ...when she used to go to tuition in her tenth class..to Ramakrishna sir.
Saraswati Didi's and Ramakrishna sir were like best buddies to each other..when she used to see her ..she always admired their brother sister bond.
And always thought..even she will have such bond with her brother's ..as they grow up.
Their bond was always the same ...and after marriage..her sis in law and husband also shared a good bond... sitting together...pulling each other's legs... standing for each other.
Is Shivani thinking much to share such bond with her brother's.
Whenever she visited her parents home after wedding...either Rahul or Ajay might have spited out something or the other..no vacation went without crying.
Her bond is strained with both her brother's..she keeps on thinking..is she soo bad that none of them share a cordial relationship with her.
Ajay have no habit of talking without shouting and .. taunting about her upsc preparation. Which she was never able to qualify.
Rahul ..being a doctor.. whenever opens his mouth ...foul language.. comes out.
Having no qualities of a educated man.
Few words becomes unbearable...which may lead to straining of their relations.
Is not sometimes..ignoring foul words by one and shouting..or taunts of the other...good for relationship.
Parents asks her to stay away from them ...don't sit with them ..when you know their habits ... behaviour.
Sometimes she gets to hear from loved ones that she don't try to have good relationship and like all other married daughters...she is throwing tantrums..not trying to mend the relationship with brothers.
Shivani never understood when did she said anything and that was not good for the bond.
When Rahul got married ..he never hesitated to scold her ...(His elder sister) before any guest ..about anything..
According to her ..she was running here and there .. helping her parents in the wedding festivities.
Now she has started thinking not to go to Ajay's wedding.. leaving everything at her side...she is afraid..when and where she might be insulted again at that time.
Bond between Brother's and sister have..
1.Taking care of each other.
2.She is not being taken care when she is highly pregnant.
3.No day goes ..even in her this phase .. without a tear.
4.If she opens her mouth ..asked to go to her home (husband's home )...as parents home is not her.
5.If she is in any troubled and called for any help ...that has always gone in vein .
6.If they talk properly..with little respect would make her day ... that's all she wanted ..always..
And what she has to say..and how much she needs to ignore to save this bond??
How much Ignorance is good ??
Why she is made to feel ..she is the reason for this strained relationship???
Unki toh aadat hain ..tu light liya kar ..arre kuch bolu toh light loon na ...kisi ko kuch bola hi nahi toh ..how am I spoiling this relationship???
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