Today I was leaving with my husband to his work city or the city where he works.
My in laws were saddened as well as happy as our daughter is going to stay with dad as well.
But there were tears as well.when a daughter in law stays with in laws they may be poked for some or the other potty issues but when she goes away tears rolls out.why ?
why can’t we stay happily respecting mutually.Here I mean to say mother in law respecting daughter in law as she does to her.
why not she accepted fully instead of partially as equivalent to her husband and sister in law??
when poking happens disturbing her mental peace why does not she move away from the toxic environment?
Doesn’t she deserve to have a happy life with her husband who stays away??
I dont know why I was feeling as if I am hurting everyone by going along with husband ??
Earlier whenever husband went back to his work city no one cried like this but why now ?
I have gone twice with my husband and I was left with the same feeling of hurting others by moving along with him.
Aren’t we Indian girls embedded with such values from our childhood??
why ?
when I have married him then why should I deserve to be staying along with him ?living life with him ? Living small moments with him ?
I am not able to understand anything right now what all sorts of emotions have been going on in my head and heart.
Am I the culprit to be moving away with husband ??
if yes why daughter staying with husband is right and daughter in law with husband hurts ??
There are many why goes on ..
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