Someone becomes so important that we tend to sideline or give less time to that someone than our old relationship..that is our friends who used to be so close.
Our day started with those friends but now he/she has become that best friend.
How we become so addicted to them that not only our heart but our mind just thinks of him/her.
Both(mind n Heart) can't even imagine a second without them.
Why we become so addictive of that person ??
Why we tend to give first priority to that someone??
Why our heart gets so much inclined towards that someone??
We might come across some of the girls ..who had never let the word called "love","marriage" enter their life's dictionary..can become addicted to that someone when he/she enters.
How come is it possible??
Was never able to understand this theory of mind n Heart !!
We tend to LIVE, LAUGH and LOVE with that someone!!
Wishing that everyone find that someone in their life !!
This is a difficult question I don't have an answer to and I don't think I would ever find an answer to this. So many times it has happened that I was thinking the same thing and no matter how much I try to go back to those people who were an important part of my life once, I just can't stop thinking about that someone who has now become my life.
ReplyDeleteI am sure being a doctor and a mental health professional I could answer that question! But I understand this post is poetic and not a literal rhetoric one so I would let science take a back seat and just enjoy the beautiful expression of love an longing.
ReplyDeleteI still have been wondering about the last part of the article, how the heart plays a role in bringing that someone as our everything suddenly. But I still haven't come across the exact answer
ReplyDeleteThis is something I have struggled with all my life. I am a giver and give off myself easily. People become friends but move on suddenly leaving a void in my life. I keep struggling to accept this and it is always a struggle to move on.
ReplyDeleteTo be very frank I don't want that someone in my life. I want to be selfish, I want to do things for myself and I know it's me and only me who is going to stay with me till the end. I have been that selfless through out my life and now I want to turn the table.
ReplyDeleteYes you said it right. And the most difficult part is to maintain the relation when you found your someone. Hope everyone learns to manage their emotions well in their relationships
ReplyDeleteThat someone is definitely the one having an unique charishma which make us think of him/her all through the day and more. For me that that someone was he and yes even in his absence I think of him... for that I can say .... Ha teri adat si ho gayi ha
ReplyDeleteI wonder why that happens too. Thinking of someone constantly. You forget everything else or everything else becomes a blur. I have had one person in my life like that. Everything blurred!
ReplyDeletefor me no matter how much I love some one or something, nothing comes above me. Yes I will go beyond myself for a person but I will always look out for myself too.
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