I am not talking here about daughters of the family but so called Bahu's of the family.
Are they equally happy as daughter of the house ?
I don't like joint family as a Bahu but love to be a part as a daughter.
Indian societ theoretically says that daughter in law(DIL)is like daughter but are they really the daughter of the house ??
DIL should be
* In the kitchen whole day in the kitchen.. fulfilling the wishes of the house members.
*Daughter in law have to get up early and prepare in the morning as she is healthy and can't let her body fall ill ..she is Robot..man.
*She can't say anything if her mother in law ..the lord of the house is wrong.
*She can't even say her MIL that it slipped her mind (about whatever she might have said earlier..may be any work)
*DIL must remember and do whatever work was said to her.
*She have to get up even when she don't feel like ..and cook for everyone.
*If she gets up late ..7'o clock then she will be asked what's the time? You get up every day early for your office.
All the above happens in a small family..like father in law, mother in law , husband n DIL
Then think
What will be the situation of her in joint family.
She will be forgetting..or made to forget what a life is ??
She will be made to feel that she is born to work as a servant..her whole life.
Having no time for herself but having lot of jewellery..bahu is decorated with kilos of gold...is enough for her ??
Will it be giving her satisfaction of her life ??
We might have heard from man of the houses ..our husbands..that they wants to live in a joint family..have they imagined what will be the condition of his wife ??
He might get whatever he wants ...will not be asked to do any household chores.
Bahu's are meant for it .They are married to get wives who just have to serve the in law family..she may not have any want of staying with her husband if he is working in some other city.
Do they really have a hum saath saath hain wali life ??
Aren't they dying inside every day ??
Can't say their parents ..can't leave everything and go to them as they will be like log kya kahenge??
