Thursday, 24 February 2022

sakambhari Chouhan

*Chouhan's of saakambhari/spadalaux*

In 551AD,
Vasudev chouhan is known as the founder of Chouhan rule over spadalaux or saambhar and it's nearby areas.
So according to some sources one can say that chouhan dynasty was founded in 551AD.
He is known as the "Adipurush" of Chouhan's.

Bijolia Inscription also shed some light on this fact.
According to this inscription,Sambhar lake in jaipur was constructed by vasudev.

Initially, Chouhan's were the subordinates or saamant's of pratiharas.

Guvak, refused to be under the pratihara ruler Nagbhatta-2 and made himself independent.

Some sources says that Rani Rudrani (wife of Chandra Raj chouhan)used to lit 1000 diyas at Pushkar jheel.


Wednesday, 23 February 2022

pawsome Love ๐Ÿพ



When you have a pet at home,you are surrounded by happiness all the time.

How much ever tired you are and how much ever tensed you are they are the ones who brings happiness to you.
Unconditional loveis the thing which they offer you.
Every member of the family gets so attached to them.
But if anytime they fall sick then whole house gets sick.
When my pet got caught by cold.we had sleepless nights.
We all ran to him as he coughs .he is considered as a little of baby of the house.
Whenever he falls sick i have keep his doctor number handy.

Every dog parent need to have basic medicines at home.few of them i keep at home as if we keep for our baby at home .he is also a baby of mine.Every dog parent can understand it very well.
Here is what I keep at home
Pet kuff - for cough
Ambi flush - to keep their ears clean
Venky's Ventriliv - to stimulate the hunger
Melonix syrup- for fever
Emikind syrup -vomiting 
Ketotak ct -shampoo
Kis-kin - lotion for dermatitis;kind of skin allergy
Frecia - powder with deodorant
Pet -o-coat - nutritional supplement
Perinorm - for vomiting
Digi-pet - Indigestion

These are few of the medicines which i keep handy for my paw baby.

Origin of Chouhan Rajvansh

*Origin of Chouhan Rajvansh*

Different scholars have different stories regarding their origin.
According to 

1.Chandra Bardai ,Suryamal mishran,Muhnot Nainsi :- Chouhan Rajputs has come from the "Agni Kund" of yagna performed by Guru Vashisht at Mount Abu.

2.James Todd, William crook :- Chouhan's were foreigners (as they were foreigners so considered Chouhan's as foreigners).

3.Dashrath Sharma :- They were Chandravanshi.

4.Gaurishankar Heerachand Ozha :- They were Suryavanshi.

In this way different scholars have different theories on their origin.

The four Rajputs originated from the Agni Kund were
Chouhans
Chalukyas 
Parmars
Pratiharas.

Tuesday, 22 February 2022

Alka!!




Alka belongs to Bhil tribe of Rajasthan.she stays in a small village with her parents and 6 other siblings.
As we know tribes are not educated and not much exposed to outer world,technoloo.
There community still works according to the old tribes rules.They don't encourage any changes in their rituals and culture
They have marriages like one goes and one comes.
I.e Alka will be married to a guy and that guy's sister will be married to Alka's brother.
One girl goes and one girl comes.
Alka's brother Ramesh was much elder than her so he was married before alka.
When his sister in law came to their place . she started acting as she don't won't to stay at her in law's place and she want's to take her husband along with her to her parents home.
Ramesh was controlled by her and he never spoke in any of the family matters.
He went away with her wife to his in law's home.
Alka's parents Manuram and Kasturi devi were poor ,used to work in farms of different people.They didn't own any land.They were tenets in one of the Thakur's farm.
In this way they tried to fulfill the needs of the family.
Alka and her second brother Mahesh stood in support of their parents.They worked here and there and helped to support parents.
Alka was very brave and could sleep taking care of her siblings when parents were out of the place (to some other place )for work.
She shielded her younger siblings like a mother.
The Thakurain(wife of Thakur Saab)liked alka's behavior and used to call her for work at her haveli and used to reward her with either money or any other things.
She was in awe with Alka's bravery and her determination,never ever give up behavior.
She hated when other girls used to talking to boys who were aimless,flirting with girls..was their motto.
Her village environment was like goal of girl is getting married.she is born for that purpose only.
But alka was against such thoughts,she was like a boy to her father.supporting and standing behind him in every decision of him.
She always supported and encouraged her brother Mahesh to study as she never got a chance to study after 8th class.As there was no school in her village after 8 and her family couldn't afford to send her to the nearby city.If ever her parents could hav arranged money for her education and sent her to the city.
They would have been killed by taunts of villagers and their own community.
Alka was  against her marriage to Ramesh brother-in -law as Ramesh mother-in-law wanted her own daughter to be with her along with her son-in-law and she wanted alka to come to her home and work like a maid serving them.
Alka was against as she was like she will be taking care of her own parents instead of getting married to a guy who is his mom's puppet and who wanted a free maid to serve instead of a life partner.
When her in-laws came to ask for marriage she went against her parents and stood infront of all the people of her community who was ready to expel her family out of it.
But,she was supported by Thakur and his  family.
Alka wanted to break this alliance,in her community if one alliance is broken automatically her brother's alliance will be broken.
But Ramesh was the puppet of his wife and he don't wanted to leave his wife.if he leaves her then she can get married to someone else.It happened in bhil community.
Alka was emotionally black mailed by her father to get married to the same guy,whose mother have openly said that she will put her into fire as soon as she comes to her family.
Her parents were under the pressure of community.
They can't break it easily and can't send their daughter in a family where there is fear,of loosing her life.
On the final day of their verdict,she spoke against everyone and challenged the community rules ,she was supported by other women of her tribe as they were put under pressure to go to a family where they are not treated well.
She questioned why blame of 
  Getting a bad name to their village community.especially for bhils of her village.
Why can't they see the earlier cases when any girl was sent to that particular village,she was killed.
Then why can't she and her family go against the order of their community head.
Why community head is allowed to take decisions of the kids of their community?
Why thier parents are not allowed given this right??
Why ?
If a girl goes raises her voice,why her parents are put under pressure,who inturn suppress voices of their daughters??
Why this injustice..??

If there is one Alka in the community then she is enough to raise her voice and bring renaissance in that particular community, eliminating social evils which still exists.

Thursday, 17 February 2022

Life's firm decisions #storytellersbloghop

Aman comes from a Lower middle class family whose financial condition was worsening day by day.His father was a Tuberculosis patient,he had two sisters and one brother Aashish. 

 Both the brothers worked in a nearby town but couldn't earn enough to satisfy their family's all needs.so Aashish decided to send Aman to Hyderabad with one of their relative,who was working here from few years.

 Aman had migrated to Hyderabad in 1996 from his native village near Udaipur,Rajasthan in search of Opportunity. Initially,he worked in steel market,transportation market.

After working here and there to have some descent earnings ansd was able to send good amount to his family in the village,helping his family and supporting Aashish for better treatment of their father. 

 When he got the opportunity to start his own bussiness then onwards he didn't turn back.He started his own shop in partnership with one of his friend(Both of them worked in the same market). 

slowly,after settling his own bussiness.He got his wife sudha and his two kids Nisha and Aaditya to Hyderabad.

He was leading a very happy life with his small family.They were staying in a rented apartment.He enrolled his kids in one of the good schools and visited their village during summer vacations of school.i.april and may.
 After their grand parents demise Nisha and Aditya visited their native occasionally.

Aman and sudha visited if any of thework popped up.both brother sister were very bright students. Aaditya and Nisha went on to do MBA and B.Tech respectively from one of the reputed colleges of Hyderabad.Both of them started working in big organisations.

 parents started looking for prospective groom for nisha.nisha has been raised equivalent to aditya.she was never stoppped from doing anything,never stopped from going anywhere. she was like a tom boy always wearing jeans.she don't even know how to drape a saree,was unaware of all rituals i.e any Rasam riwaz and sudha never forced her to learn. 

 Nisha went on to prepare for UPSC after working for 1.5 years.went on to clear CDS Examinations and went for it's SSB at Bangalore.she got herself trained under colonel Nair at Officers Training Academy,Tirumalgherry.But unfortunately she couldn't clear SSB.But, his experience fetched her many friends from different states of india. 

 Her parents stood as supportive pillars for their daughter and encouraged her to do what she loved.nisha loved teaching so they supported her to start her own Academy.

she worked on her Academy along with her UPSC preparation as she had to teach kids from 5-9pm before that she had whole day to herself to her preparation. After giving 3 attempts and giving 4 years to preparation she decided to quit it and move on.

Even though it was her and Aman's dream of getting into UPSC but destiny has some other plans for her.she was successfullyrunning her institute and within no time she earned a good namein her area.she was respected by the people of her area. she had almost 50+students in different batches.

she was financially independent and confident as she was following her passion.she was earning quite more thamn her friends earning in big IT companies. Aaditya after working in a corporate world for one year,joined his father's bussiness and started traditional methods of doing bussiness which can be learned practically from his father. 

 Both Aman and sudha were happy with the career growth of their kids but what made them worry was nisha's marriage.They come from a conservative community in which you don't find either open minded family or an educated guy. sudha never wanted her daughter to be treated like a servant to her family,she never wanted her daughter to give up on her dreams.

 she has been seeing nisha working very hard on her dreams,giving up her sleep.so,she wanted nisha to have her career even after marriage.Actually a mother leaves her own dreams through her daughter. Most of the indian mothers who had to give up on their dreams try to live them through their daughters.

 Aashish and his wife wanted Aman to marry off nisha to his brother in law's son Ajit,who was a govt teacher. Aashish and his wife pooja pressurized Aman for this match but,sudha went against Aashis and family for the sake of her daughter's dreams. she clearly said "NO" for this alliance.

she said she cannot give her daughter to afamily where women is still treated as a servant,her education is not at all considered.she is just seen as kids producing machine. Inspite of being govt teacher,his thoughts are against women.she cannot give her daughter to educated illiterate family. Aman always stood behind her decisions and this created a rift between Aman and Aashish. Within a year,sudha and aman got a match of Deekshit for Nisha.

Deekshit was working in Jaipur.His family was from Tonk.Aman and sudha asked nisha to talk to Deekshit and if she is fine with him they will go ahead with the formalities. Nisha fell in love with the behaviour of Deekshit,he was like Aman,her father. What a girl wants in her life,A life partner who treats her like a queen like her father. Deekshit and his family was not Rich by money but was Rich by they thought..their "SOCH".which was what needed by sudha and aman for their daughter.

 Now,it's been 8 years to nisha's marriage.she is happily settled in Jaipur,having a son and running her own institute.Deekshit always stood behind her helping her to reesatablish her career and working on parenthood. He wanted nisha to grow personally and professionally. In a society,where still we find educated illiterate families who want an educated girl but don't want her to have a career. when women supports women instead of pulling each other,they start growing together.



 This story is written for the season 2 of #storytellerbloghop hosted by meenalsonal of www.auraofthoughts.com and ujjawal mishra of www.mywordsmywisdom.com

Wednesday, 16 February 2022

Dilemmas!!



Shikha was doing great in her life.she was successfully running her own institute at vijaywada.she had 50+ students in different batches.
She enjoyed doing this.she loved sharing knowledge,teaching kids.within no time she got the art of interacting with different kids.
She could easily understand kids.she had students from the class 1-12th.
So,this experience of 10+ years have made her to learn so many things from new generation.
Every year ,every new batch thought her new things,gave her different experiences.
She was fully content with what she was doing.
Taking classes from 5pm-9:30pm, forgetting to touch her phone.
In the morning she could help her parents and spent enough time with the family.she could study her favourite novels.
She could experiment writing, scribbling in her diary.
She always thought that this phase is permanent.It will go the same way through out her life.
She thought so as she was never interested to get married.
Atlast she bowed down to her parents wish of her getting married.
She never understood the concept of marriage.she never ever imagined herself as a bride.
Never ..
But once she met him ..Rahul ..her concept of marriage changed.
He made her to see how beautiful life can be with the person you love.How beautiful a marriage can be .
She got married to Rahul and got shifted to Barmer (Rajasthan).
It was quite difficult for her to get used to the culture.
After marriage,girls life changes upside down.she gets transformed in to a kind of person she never imagined.
Her dressing style , everything changes.
On that she have to get adapted to different state among different people.
Rahul turns out to be her best friend and helps her to get adapted to the new place.
But again

There is only one thing going on in her mind.
What's next ??
Mother in law starts asking about family planning.
But she have what to do in her life ??
What she will be doing now?
Either plan a baby or join some school for a year.so that she can get an experience and later on can plan a baby.
Later on giving time of 5 years to baby again she can join school or start coaching in Barmer.

A girl has lot many questions going in mind

Right now I am 30.will this be effecting to my baby plans ?

If i don't join any school now .will i be getting a job later on??after 5years??

Should I be going for higher studies?

If yes,where Vijayawada?? Rajasthan??

Will this be affecting in law home environment??

If i start tuitions now ?? If i am not able to continue ??

Should I be shifting to jaipur with husband ??

Etc ..etc..so many questions at a time ..

Sometimes shikha thinks is she the only going through this kind of dilemma or is it a kahani of every girl after marriage??? 

Monday, 14 February 2022

Love!!what is Love?


 Love is not just giving the fancy roses and gifts on valentine's day.

Then what is Love?why do we associate it with only gifts and roses?

Love 

Love is when someone loves you to adjust in a family.

Love is when someone reminds you to drink milk.

Love is when someone reminds you to drink water.

Love is when someone gets up and gets u a glass of water.

Love is when someone hugs u tightly when u have tears in your eyes.

Love is when someone cries seeing you cry.

Love is when someone hugs you tightly and it makes wonders.

Love is when someone's presence brings a big smile on your face.

Love is when someone gives you a good night kiss and hugs after you have slept.

Love is finding a friend for life time.

Love is when someone makes every effort to bring a smile on your face.

Love is when someone loves you even without make up.

Love is when someone wakes up and waits you to show the best view of your room.

Love is when someone gets u stylish jackets and takes care of each and every need of you.

Love is when someone takes you for shopping.

Love is very deep which just can't be expressed.it can just be felt.

Love is when someone waits for meals until you get free from household chores.

Love is when someone gives you good morning kisses and hugs.

Love is cheering a Cup of tea.

Love is when someone folds Blanket to help her.

Love is when someone keeps on encouraging you at every step and says we will sort out together.

Love is when someone says "Mein hoon na"

Love is when someone gives wings to your dreams.

Love is when someone encourages you to write.

Love is when someone gives you compliments every other day.

Love is giving you your space .

Love is when someone respects your views.

Love is when someone listens to u patiently when u r angry.

Love is wearing your husband's t-shirt and track pant.

Love is when someone reminds that you r an individual with an individual identity.

Love believes in you.

Love is his smile.

Love is hugs.

Love is loving you for who you are.

Love is loving you like a queen.

Love is accepting you the way you are.

Love is when he is around.

Love is "you".


Happy Valentines!










Thursday, 10 February 2022

"เคšुंเคกा เค•ो เคœंเค— เคœीเคคเคจे เค•ा เค†เคถीเคท เคฆे เคฆिเคฏा เคฅाเคฒी เคฎें เค•ाเคŸ เค•्เคทเคค्เคฐाเคฃि เคจे เคถीเคถ เคฆे เคฆिเคฏा"

*Hadi Rani *

"เคšुंเคกा เค•ो เคœंเค— เคœीเคคเคจे เค•ा เค†เคถीเคท เคฆे เคฆिเคฏा
เคฅाเคฒी เคฎें เค•ाเคŸ เค•्เคทเคค्เคฐाเคฃि เคจे เคถीเคถ เคฆे เคฆिเคฏा"

Rawat Ratan singh, a chieftain of Selumbar was married to Bundi princess Indra kanwar.
He was much fond of her.

During 1680, Aurangzeb attacked on Mewar.He divided his army in to different battalions/tukdi and attacked on mewar.
Rana Raj Singh was the ruler of Mewar,he sent message to all the chieftains of Mewar including Rawat Ratan singh of Selumbar.
Few days back only he was married to rani Hadi. 

When he got the message from Rana Raj Singh,he started war preparations.He was about to face Mughal senapati Hasan ALi Khan.

While going to war ,he asked his sevak to go to rani Hadi and get "nishani/symbol"of her so that he can see that and remember her.

When rani Indra kanwar was told this,she understood that ravat is unable to go to war because of her love/affection.
She cannot come in the middle of his duties.
For him ,motherland should come first and she cannot be an hindrance to his duty.

She cut her head and sent it with the dasi to him.

Seeing that,he said 
"เคฐाเคจी เคจे เคคो เค…เคชเคจा เค•เคฐ्เคคเคต्เคฏ เคจिเคญा เคฆिเคฏा เค”เคฐ เคนเคฎें เคญी เค•เคฐ्เคค्เคคเคต्เคฏ เค•ा เคชाเค  เคชเคข़ा เค—เคˆ,
เคธौंเค—ंเคง เคนैं เคเค• เคฒिंเค— เคœी เค•ी เคตिเคœเคฏ เคฏा เคตीเคฐเค—เคคि
เคฒौเคŸเค•เคฐ เคฎเคนเคฒों เคฎें เคจเคนीं เค†เคŠंเค—ा"

It is said in the folklore that he put her head in his neck as a garland and fought against Mughals,driving them away.

Such was the story of their love !!

She didn't let her love come in between his duties a.s he fulfilled his duties loving her deeply"

When Valour met love !!

This post is in association with blogchatter's a2z challenge.




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