See ..inspite of being so busy ..kept all of us updated through her insta stories.
I was surprised..she could upload stories ..as in Indian weddings .. especially rajasthani weddings ..bride won't get time only ..many rituals ..n many other things..which may not let us to check insta ...or any of our social media accounts.
Seeing her stories ..a thought popped up in my mind.
what is marriage??
Is it wearing dulhan lehanga...or poshak .. jewellery..all taam jhaam..of wedding..or something..much much more than that.
It's a seven lives sacred relationship.
Real marriage starts after 1 or 2 months of wedding..when you really start living with each other ...that attraction period starts to decline..
After a little bit of experience what I could i understand from the word marriage is ..
Pampering
Dealing with each other mood swings
Living with the person whose habits ..few of them may not be liked by u and vice versa..
Holding onto each other after ups and downs of life.
Loving each other the way u loved at very first sight in whatever condition you are ..even when you are in messy hair ..all messed up
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Many more ..
Many thoghts were running in to my mind ..when i planned to write on this..but ..now ..
Finding difficulty to recollect everything..
I can just say that ..
It's much much more than the ceremony of marriage..true marriage starts after you start living together.. it's much more ...
You are right Sonu. Highest happiness on earth is the happiness of marriage and its more than a ceremony.
ReplyDeleteExactly… marriage is so much more than what is seems in beginning… once the honeymoon period ends and we have to accept ,adjust and deal with each other every single day than only we came to know the real meaning of being married..
ReplyDeleteThese days marriage is just blowing up loads of money. Exotic clothes, make up decor and what not. The pre-wedding shoots are so extravagant. Insta has to be a part of every part of the wedding! Recently there were 4 divorces in my friend's circle. The amount of money spent is insane.
ReplyDeleteI feel it is more about putting your everything on social media. I dont really understand what is the urge and urgency to post every choti-badi details about one's life. You have spoken about Marriage but I have even seen people putting such touchy life details like death of their immediate family and the way it is worded. uff..
ReplyDeleteyes social media has changed the perspective of so many beautiful things in life. and marriage is one of them. loved your observation. I also think the same.
ReplyDeleteThere is so much to cherish in marriage relationship, but with ongoing social media age things are really turning in other directions but still it's all about one's choice, great observations.
ReplyDeleteYup marriage is much more than rosy Insta pics. its about commitment !!. Having said that , I also feel celebrating this D-day is one's choice.
ReplyDeleteYou have rightfully put out the thought. Indian weddings are more like shows than intimate events. I always loathes how I was heavy with jewelry all over my body and never felt comfortable
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