moments 💓

Dilkash thi woh shaam pehle pehal

Jab ke tumse mili thi nazar

Beautiful moments:

1. When i was said that he has come in the mandap.

2.U getting up n giving me my spects..which u understood that how badly i needed it.

3.There was no moment when i felt that I have to leave my family and go to a new house ..how will be able to manage ..n all. .i just knew that I have YOU

4.when i met u for the first time after ceremony.

5.My heart was filled with awness that ..as soon as u went downstairs..i messaged u " same to u " and as expected..there was a reply from u ❤️

Felt like 

"Dil hote jo mere seene mein do

Doosra dil bhi main tumhe deta todne ko"

6.Holding ua hand in the car on the way for the first time.

7.u asking me to sleep on your shoulder... 🥰

8. Having breakfast with me to make me comfortable.

Almost after one and half year .. everything is afresh as if it happened yesterday ❤️ 

Everybody wanna know be like be like

I really wanna be here with you

Is that enough to say that

We are made for each other is all that is Hosanna true

Home

A place where you feel connected

A place where you have the right over everything

A place where u can change anything according to u and it's acceptable by all

A place where you are heard in every minute decision 

A place where your heart is ❤️

Sometimes most of us .. especially girls after marriage don't seems to get connected to their in laws home .

May be because you are not made to feel so ..

May be ua just a person staying there like a PG i.e paying guest.

 

A letter to Myself !

A letter to myself

 Every little thing was enjoyed then!!

Dear Sonu 

U seems to have forgotten yourself.

I wonder where that sonu has gone

 who would stop and look at herself.

Who would say hello to books

Whose room would be decorated with new novels every month

Who would sit in peace and sip the tea.

Who would feel the movement of trees.

Who would look at the sky calmly and build up a story.

Who would be available for her friends.

Who would love spending time with Tom.

Who would read and write a lot.

Who was on a journey to explore herself.

Who would never miss the sunset or sunrise moments.

Who would silence every one just to listen chirping of birds.

Who would capture the birds...flowers...what not ..come back yar 

I seriously miss that sonu ... ,look at herself.

What you have become .

I don't want see this version of sonu

I want that same ...sonu who would laugh her heart out.

Who had the aura of making environment positive with her laugh and of course her comments.

Who had the wishlist to complete.

Please come back !!

Missing you badly!!

We become so busy in our work that we forget ourself.

Teej!!

Happy Teej to every one ..

I am writing this post as it's Teej today ..most celebrated festival of rajasthan..i don't know whether it's celebrated in other states or not.

Yes, ofcourse people of rajasthan who are settled in different states celebrate it with the same enthusiasm.

I never did this fast before marriage...and to be Frank never took interest in it ..what is this festival??or why is it celebrated?? Etc etc i never took any interest.

But after marriage this  is my second Teej ..and first time i am celebrating it with my husband.

They say it's a festival of lord parvati and Shiva's love .

Ardhanarishwar's love !!

So on this day ..what makes its special..

Your life partner's little efforts ..mehandi lagana aapke haatho mein ,aapko khilana (as i was asked by my mother in law to get up n eat something @4am ..she prepared and then called me ...but i was reluctant to get up and eat so early and i seriously didn't find the logic in getting up early and eating..as we will be hungry when we have to ), hugs,pamperings,..many such little efforts matter ..and that can make a day for a women.

This festival brings lot of excitement and energy..which might be disturbed by some of the events that unfolds in our surroundings.

But he can have the magic like a magic man ...to make the environment happy happy .

So guys enjoy this festyof love with your loved one ..get pampered and kepp loving ...keep flourishing..much love to all of my readers .

Life - why can't you be so simple??

Simple ..

Why can't life be so simple 

As the way we expect

Why we have to face so much of turns in life 

Making it complicated

Why can't you be so simple ??

Why can't life be so simple

If it would have been so 

There would not have been any complications

May be if it would have been so simple

There would not have any pain inside

No place for pain deep inside

May be if it would been so simple

Every one might have felt lighter

May be if it would have been so simple

Everyone might be at peace !!

‘This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D'silva and Noor Anand Chawla

अकेलापन

सब के आसपास होते हुए भी 

हूं में अकेली

क्या इसी लिए थामी थी

तेरी हथेली

जब होते हो तुम आसपास

कैसे होती हु में चहकी हुईं

जब नही होते  हो आसपास

तो हो जाती हूं में सहमी सी अकेली सी

क्या थामा था हाथ तेरा 

इसीलिए की

छोड़ जाए तू मुझे अकेली सी

क्यों लगता हैं अकेलापन

तुझ बिन

सोचती हूं कई बार में

क्यों आई तेरी में बातों में

क्यों आई में तेरी बातों में 

रह रही हूं तेरी यादों में

होता हैं इंतजार तेरे आने का

क्या गुजर जायेगी जिंदगी ऐसे ही

 तेरे इंतजार में

क्यों होती हूं में अकेली

कहती हूं में सभी से

मत लगाना मन किसी से

अच्छे हो जैसे हो

रह न पाओगे चाह कर किसी को

 

joint family and women!!

Do joint family system beneficial for a women?

I am not talking here about daughters of the family but so called Bahu's of the family.

Are they equally happy as daughter of the house ?

I don't like joint family as a Bahu but love to be a part as a daughter.

Indian societ theoretically says that daughter in law(DIL)is like daughter but are they really the daughter of the house ??

DIL should be

* In the kitchen whole day in the kitchen.. fulfilling the wishes of the house members.

*Daughter in law have to  get up early and prepare in the morning as she is healthy and can't let her body fall ill ..she is Robot..man.

*She can't say anything if her mother in law ..the lord of the house is wrong.

*She can't even say her MIL that it slipped her mind (about whatever she might have said earlier..may be any work)

*DIL must remember and do whatever work was said to her.

*She have to get up even when she don't feel like ..and cook for everyone.

*If she gets up late ..7'o clock then she will be asked what's the time? You get up every day early for your office.

All the above happens in a small family..like father in law, mother in law , husband n DIL

Then think 

What will be the situation of her in joint family.

She will be forgetting..or made to forget what a life is ?? 

She will be made to feel that she is born to work as a servant..her whole life.

Having no time for herself but having lot of jewellery..bahu is decorated with kilos of gold...is enough for her ??

Will it be giving her satisfaction of her life ??

We might have heard from man of the houses ..our husbands..that they wants to live in a joint family..have they imagined what will be the condition of his wife ??

He might get whatever he wants ...will not be asked to do any household chores.

Bahu's are meant for it .They are married to get wives who just have to serve the in law family..she may not have any want of staying with her husband if he is working in some other city.

Do they really have a hum saath saath hain wali life ??

Aren't they dying inside every day ??

Can't say their parents ..can't leave everything and go to them as they will be like log kya kahenge??