Life without festivals

Recently a question popped up in my mind about the importance of festivals ..

Are they really important in life ?

If yes 

Why so ?

How would be life without festivals?

If there is no festival in our life what will happen?

Why these festival has been brought into our lives and so on.,..

But ,after analysing for much time and I could understand they are really very important in our lives .

If there is no celebration then our life will be boring...no excitement.

Some of us may loose interest in routine life.

We may go into depression..yes you heard it right ..

So, our ancestors....very old ancestors I can say .... centuries ago ..came up with the concept of celebration of small small things in life ... giving them form of festivals.

If you observe carefully our calendar...you might come to know how we are kept engaged in them one after the other.

Navratri...Dussehra... Diwali .. Sankranti..Holi....and many others ..

There are different festivals.. different ways to celebrate them in different regions.

When I went for my AFCAT's Mysore SSB..in one of the activity..a kind of testing you was through extempo..then I got the topic of Importance of festivals...I really don't know what I would have spoke then on the same topic back then in 2016..

But as you age ...you understand the importance...deep concept...reasons behind the celebration of many things ..to which you considered a mere celebration earlier.

It was the practice to bring the family together...family get together..

Even though earlier people stayed in joint families...lived near by.

But ,in this era where each one of us are settled in different cities.. countries in search of better opportunities...for education.

These festivals brings loved ones together..for few days..but still they come closer and get a chance to take a break from our busier schedules.

Seriously,life would have been barren without these festivals.

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Aversions

Why sometimes we don't feel any affinity towards someone ?

You don't even feel like hearing them..seems to be  frustrated when they are around .

Some actions of some people creates such an impression on your heart and mind ..on the whole soul...that you get frustrated of them being around ..hearing them.

But can't say anything as you respect that relationship or may be you don't want to spoil the relationships.

But,in all of these

 Are we not troubling ourselves?

Are we not hurting ourselves?

Crying ?

Disturbing our mental health?

Instead of knowing everything we tend to do it repeatedly.

Someplaces and some people can never be good for body and mind.

What to be done ??

How to keep yourself protected from such irritating feelings??

Frustrated feelings?

When they are the people with whom you have to live  and see them very often ..??

Why this happens??

Why our mind and body tend to get offended by someone's actions ?

Life of a woman !!

People who read my every post might have atleast thought once that I have an obsession with exclamatory marks !!

I don't know ...but out of all English Symbols I like it a bit more from the time Venkatramana ma'am thought us in school.

Yes

So today ..what have I observed around me?

Life of woman..after a certain time she becomes purpose less ...isn't it?

Does this happens with female figure of our society or male as well goes through this ?

I have no idea ...about it

May be yes

Being a female .. I could just feel connected more with female's life .

A boy named kanishk and girl named kudrat were born to Revanth and Priya .

Revanth worked in an IT firm and Priya who was also employed in an IT sector were proud parents of two kids ...they had a perfect family.

Kids sent to school..Priya had actually discontinued her job after her first born.she dedicated her whole life to kids and her husband.

She never had time to make friends...go for parties. ..even she reduced her vacation to her parents home .

During summer break as well she was busy in enrolling her kids to various classes and took them to their paternal grandparents.

Slowly kids went to colleges,graduated and her daughter went on to do MS from US and son got placed in an MNC in Bangalore.

She and her husband settled down in the same city from where they had started their life.

They married their kids and was free of all the responsibilities.

Her life always revolved around her husband and her kids.

Her husband left her soon and she was left  alone for herself.

She barely had any work ..she became purpose less in her life ...she started getting thoughts what is the purpose of her life and what she did for herself?

She never did anything which she liked ... always moved on the whims and wishes of her husband and kids.

She went on to stay with her daughter in US and her son in Bangalore..kids has become busy in their respective lives...If any one says anything it made her feel so much.

She starts loosing interest in her life...she becomes purpose less in life.