Sunday 18 December 2022

That Someone!!

I don't know how someone becomes so important in your life that we start our day and end our day with the thought of him/her.

Someone becomes so important that we tend to sideline or give less time to that someone than our old relationship..that is our friends who used to be so close.

Our day started with those friends but now he/she has become that best friend.

How we become so addicted to them that not only our heart but our mind just thinks of him/her.

Both(mind n Heart) can't even imagine a second without them.

Why we become so addictive of that person ??
Why we tend to give first priority to that someone??
Why our heart gets so much inclined towards that someone??

We might come across some of the girls  ..who had never let the word called "love","marriage" enter their life's dictionary..can become addicted to that someone when he/she enters.

How come is it possible??

Was never able to understand this theory of mind n Heart !!
 
We tend to LIVE, LAUGH and LOVE with that someone!!

Wishing that everyone find that someone in their life !!


Saturday 3 December 2022

Loneliness

तेरे होने से हूं में यहां
न होते हो तुम जब साथ
लगता हैं हर पल खाली सा
जैसे कोई न हो पास मेरे

चाहु तुझे में हमेशा अपने संग
क्या प्रयत्न करू तुझे संग रखने के लिए
कैसे बन गईं तेरी इतनी आदि
की खुद को ही गई हूं भूल

बस चाहु साथ तेरा हर पल
और न चाहु कुछ अब
आजा रंग दे मुझे
चाहु तेरे रंग में रंगना 

Wednesday 2 November 2022

Sisganj Gurudwara Sahib

 Recently i have been to this Beautiful,peacful place ..Sisganj Gurudwara Sahib.
I don't know why gurudwara sahib ..i need to look at this terminology.

Sisganj Gurudwara Sahib is located opposite to The Red fort .
It was constructed at the place where 9th sikh guru Tejbahadur was beheaded by Aurangzeb for not accepting the mughal authority in 1675.
Guru Tejbahadur was the son of 6th Hargobind who was the sixth guru.He elected his grandson Har Rai as the next guru inspite of Guru Tejbahadur as he moved on the path of renunciation at that time and Hargobind wanted a worldly guru as his successor so he elected Har Rai as his successor.
But Har Rai died at the age of 31 and his Har kishan became the 8th guru who was of 5years.He lost the life at the age of 7 due to the disease.But gave hint that 9th guru will be found at Barkala.
Tejbahadur was made the 9th guru,Guru Gobind ,the next sikh guru was his son who began the Khalsa movement.
Sisganj Gurudwara Sahib is built at the site exactly opposite to the guru Tejbahadur's execution site.
Initially i was reluctant to go as we were having luggage with us(we were on the way to purani delhi railway station).He kept the luggage and i went alone to the marvelous, beautiful gurudwara where you experience the peace... serenity..from within.
When in Delhi one must visit this gurudwara which stands tall with a great history at the back.

what to write ?

As today after a month when i sat to write ..

Lost in bul bhulaiya ....of topics ...
What to write ?
On what topic ?
..
.
 On this topic x
No 
No 
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Topic y
...
But ..
No ..
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No ..
It just went on like this thinking
About the topics...
And at last it has  become the topic ..
What should be the topic?
What to write ...?



Thursday 8 September 2022

moments 💓

Dilkash thi woh shaam pehle pehal
Jab ke tumse mili thi nazar

Beautiful moments:

1. When i was said that he has come in the mandap.
2.U getting up n giving me my spects..which u understood that how badly i needed it.
3.There was no moment when i felt that I have to leave my family and go to a new house ..how will be able to manage ..n all. .i just knew that I have YOU
4.when i met u for the first time after ceremony.
5.My heart was filled with awness that ..as soon as u went downstairs..i messaged u " same to u " and as expected..there was a reply from u ❤️

Felt like 

"Dil hote jo mere seene mein do
Doosra dil bhi main tumhe deta todne ko"

6.Holding ua hand in the car on the way for the first time.
7.u asking me to sleep on your shoulder... 🥰
8. Having breakfast with me to make me comfortable.

Almost after one and half year .. everything is afresh as if it happened yesterday ❤️ 



Everybody wanna know be like be like
I really wanna be here with you
Is that enough to say that
We are made for each other is all that is Hosanna true







Sunday 4 September 2022

Home

A place where you feel connected
A place where you have the right over everything
A place where u can change anything according to u and it's acceptable by all
A place where you are heard in every minute decision 


A place where your heart is ❤️




Sometimes most of us .. especially girls after marriage don't seems to get connected to their in laws home .
May be because you are not made to feel so ..

May be ua just a person staying there like a PG i.e paying guest.
 

Thursday 1 September 2022

A letter to Myself !

A letter to myself


 Every little thing was enjoyed then!!


Dear Sonu 
U seems to have forgotten yourself.
I wonder where that sonu has gone
 who would stop and look at herself.
Who would say hello to books
Whose room would be decorated with new novels every month
Who would sit in peace and sip the tea.
Who would feel the movement of trees.
Who would look at the sky calmly and build up a story.
Who would be available for her friends.
Who would love spending time with Tom.
Who would read and write a lot.
Who was on a journey to explore herself.
Who would never miss the sunset or sunrise moments.
Who would silence every one just to listen chirping of birds.
Who would capture the birds...flowers...what not ..come back yar 


I seriously miss that sonu ... ,look at herself.
What you have become .
I don't want see this version of sonu
I want that same ...sonu who would laugh her heart out.
Who had the aura of making environment positive with her laugh and of course her comments.
Who had the wishlist to complete.

Please come back !!

Missing you badly!!

We become so busy in our work that we forget ourself.


Saturday 13 August 2022

Teej!!



Happy Teej to every one ..
I am writing this post as it's Teej today ..most celebrated festival of rajasthan..i don't know whether it's celebrated in other states or not.
Yes, ofcourse people of rajasthan who are settled in different states celebrate it with the same enthusiasm.
I never did this fast before marriage...and to be Frank never took interest in it ..what is this festival??or why is it celebrated?? Etc etc i never took any interest.
But after marriage this  is my second Teej ..and first time i am celebrating it with my husband.
They say it's a festival of lord parvati and Shiva's love .
Ardhanarishwar's love !!
So on this day ..what makes its special..

Your life partner's little efforts ..mehandi lagana aapke haatho mein ,aapko khilana (as i was asked by my mother in law to get up n eat something @4am ..she prepared and then called me ...but i was reluctant to get up and eat so early and i seriously didn't find the logic in getting up early and eating..as we will be hungry when we have to ), hugs,pamperings,..many such little efforts matter ..and that can make a day for a women.

This festival brings lot of excitement and energy..which might be disturbed by some of the events that unfolds in our surroundings.

But he can have the magic like a magic man ...to make the environment happy happy .

So guys enjoy this festyof love with your loved one ..get pampered and kepp loving ...keep flourishing..much love to all of my readers .

Life - why can't you be so simple??


Simple ..
Why can't life be so simple 
As the way we expect
Why we have to face so much of turns in life 
Making it complicated
Why can't you be so simple ??

Why can't life be so simple
If it would have been so 
There would not have been any complications

May be if it would have been so simple
There would not have any pain inside
No place for pain deep inside

May be if it would been so simple
Every one might have felt lighter

May be if it would have been so simple
Everyone might be at peace !!


‘This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D'silva and Noor Anand Chawla


Thursday 11 August 2022

अकेलापन


सब के आसपास होते हुए भी 
हूं में अकेली

क्या इसी लिए थामी थी
तेरी हथेली

जब होते हो तुम आसपास
कैसे होती हु में चहकी हुईं

जब नही होते  हो आसपास
तो हो जाती हूं में सहमी सी अकेली सी

क्या थामा था हाथ तेरा 
इसीलिए की

छोड़ जाए तू मुझे अकेली सी

क्यों लगता हैं अकेलापन
तुझ बिन

सोचती हूं कई बार में
क्यों आई तेरी में बातों में

क्यों आई में तेरी बातों में 
रह रही हूं तेरी यादों में

होता हैं इंतजार तेरे आने का

क्या गुजर जायेगी जिंदगी ऐसे ही
 तेरे इंतजार में

क्यों होती हूं में अकेली

कहती हूं में सभी से
मत लगाना मन किसी से

अच्छे हो जैसे हो

रह न पाओगे चाह कर किसी को
 

joint family and women!!

Do joint family system beneficial for a women?
I am not talking here about daughters of the family but so called Bahu's of the family.
Are they equally happy as daughter of the house ?

I don't like joint family as a Bahu but love to be a part as a daughter.

Indian societ theoretically says that daughter in law(DIL)is like daughter but are they really the daughter of the house ??

DIL should be
* In the kitchen whole day in the kitchen.. fulfilling the wishes of the house members.
*Daughter in law have to  get up early and prepare in the morning as she is healthy and can't let her body fall ill ..she is Robot..man.
*She can't say anything if her mother in law ..the lord of the house is wrong.
*She can't even say her MIL that it slipped her mind (about whatever she might have said earlier..may be any work)
*DIL must remember and do whatever work was said to her.
*She have to get up even when she don't feel like ..and cook for everyone.
*If she gets up late ..7'o clock then she will be asked what's the time? You get up every day early for your office.


All the above happens in a small family..like father in law, mother in law , husband n DIL

Then think 
What will be the situation of her in joint family.
She will be forgetting..or made to forget what a life is ?? 
She will be made to feel that she is born to work as a servant..her whole life.




Having no time for herself but having lot of jewellery..bahu is decorated with kilos of gold...is enough for her ??
Will it be giving her satisfaction of her life ??

We might have heard from man of the houses ..our husbands..that they wants to live in a joint family..have they imagined what will be the condition of his wife ??
He might get whatever he wants ...will not be asked to do any household chores.

Bahu's are meant for it .They are married to get wives who just have to serve the in law family..she may not have any want of staying with her husband if he is working in some other city.

Do they really have a hum saath saath hain wali life ??
Aren't they dying inside every day ??
Can't say their parents ..can't leave everything and go to them as they will be like log kya kahenge??


Sunday 31 July 2022

Father daughter bond !


A daughter's  first hero ..not only a simple hero but a super hero who wants another super hero..an Avenger ..may be more than that .. for his angel.
Yes,an Avenger..as it's not easy for any one to keep his angel the way he has kept her his whole life.
*attached to his heart.
*Help her to open her wings again and again which may be society has tried to fold them back or cut them down.
*Who can keep her like a princess the way he kept her ..apni palako par.
*Who can pamper her when she needed pampering.
*Who can be her best friend the way her dad is to her.
This new super hero may never be able to take place of Angels first hero ...super super hero ..her ...Father.
Father daughter bond is such a beautiful bond which can't be put in words.

After marriage..how difficult it is to stay away from her parents who stays in another city..every girls can understand very well.


Friday 8 July 2022

Mann ka Haal

Jab mann chahe ek hug 
Par tu yaha nahi

Jab mann chahe tujh sang waqt 
Par tu yaha nahi 

Jab mann chahe tujhe niharna 
Par tu yaha nahi 

Jab mann chahe tujhe sab batana 
Par tu yaha nahi 

Jab mann chahe tujhse laad ladana 
Par tu yaha nahi 

Bahut kuch chahe yeh mann
Par tu yaha nahi 

Kya hafte mein ek baar milna 
Justiciable ..hain ..
Kya usse door rehna sahi jiske liye aap chod aaye apna saara sansaar 

Kaise samjhaye iss mann ko ..jo bann baitha hainn pagal tere liye..

Samnadar mein lahro ki tarah uthte hain mann mein kayi emotions 
Kya har baar unko dabana sahi hain 

Kaise batau tujhe ki kya haal hain iss dil tujh bin 
Photo credit :Google Baba

Thursday 23 June 2022

Saree and me !

It makes me to get up one hour earlier.
It doesn't come to its form very easily.
Takes time to settle down as if sand particles are disturbed by the movement of vehicle.
You try very very hard to wrap it to some extent..but during work ..whole attention goes to it.
It's an attention seeker..who doesn't want you to focus anywhere else.
Although i love saree ..but wrapped on others not on self.
As it makes me  ..."khoon k aasu rula deti hain subah subah".
Don't want to come to its form and settle down soon.
Story of me and saree ..goes on every day.
Cannot explain ki kitni mushaqat karni padti hain isse mannane mein.
Hai re saree..phir bhi nahi aati apne ghere mein.
Subah subah apne mein uljhati hoon...koi kitna bhi chahe phir bhi usko na aasani se wrap hoti ho.
Hai re saree ..tu mere subah ki saathi gayi ho bann...
Tujh bin na jaye mera din dhal.
Hai ..re saree..kyu nahi aati ho haath jaldi mein.

This blog post is part of the blog challenge "Blogaberry Dazzle" hosted by Cindy D'silva

Wednesday 22 June 2022

Attitude is Altitude

Attitude is Altitude
Attitude is everything..this was the name of one of the beginning lessons of 8th standard English subject.This lesson was about nick vujicic. While teaching to kids I came to know about him.Actually earlier I just heard his name but didn’t knew much about him.when I read that lesson it was really good to have such kind of stories for kids in their academics which can teach them how to look for positivity.

 “When life gives you lemon make lemonade” we all have heard this quote but he in reality have shown to the world how to perfectly make lemonade when life throws lemon at you. We all get depressed,hopeless when life throws very very small problems at us.I often used to get anxious thinking about the future inspite of being blessed with everything.

He is a live example of showing us to look how beautiful life is. According to wiki,Nick Vujicic is an australian american christian evangelist and motivational speaker.He was born with a rare disorder because of which he is born without arms and legs. 

Despite of this disorder,he never seems to be complaining to universal power whom we all call as God.when I checked his instagram handle I was awestruck by the attitude he have towards life.He is married and living happily with his wife and four kids. 

I was like inspite of being blessed with everything by god we keep on scribbling about career,studies,I must say about every thinng. He is a live example and everyone must and should know about him.

He is inspiring millions of people around the world through his books and motivational events. 

We all must take him as an ideal showing us to look at the life in a positive way.let us look at how blessed life is.How grateful our life is. It’s everything in our attitude …attitude is which helps us to find happiness.

Workshop on Innovative Pedagogy

Today i.e 22 June 2022,i happened to bea part of a workshop held at the institute where I work.
Central Academy in Pali Marwar(yes pali marwar,there is one more pali in Uttrakhand and one in Maharashtra so pali in Rajasthan is said to be known as pali marwar).

I think workshop's organised by any institute is very helpful for their employees and such workshops need to be conducted to get the employee of all the wings together.

Whe. We join any new institute or organisation..we tend to connect with very few people and tend to find comfort in their company.
To bring the employees out of their comfort zones ..such workshops are needed and yes to upskill or we may say update the knowledge/skills of employees.
I am glad i could get a chance to be a part of one of such workshops.
At Central Academy,
Workshop on "Innovative Pedagogy " was held today and it was attended by employees of both of it's branches.

Innovative Pedagogy:
What is Innovative Pedagogy?
The very first thought that comes to our mind is ..innovative(new/unique/updated) method of teaching.
In lay man's language,it is the new practice..or method to teach or interact with the kids.

So , organization had invited mrs.Anurima Roy,who was a renowned person in her educator field to conduct this workshop.

What we did in that ?
She came up with powerpoint presentation and some activities to keep her audience engaged.
She gave us some activities like 
*Writing a story looking at the image.
*Writing English sentances looking at the image.
*Forming few some mathematics sentences.
*Finding out the geometrical shapes used in the image.
*Questions related to Environment.
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And many other mini activities.
To be Frank some times such workshops seems to be boring .

But got to learn about many new things as well.
 
What are the 5 C's of learning?
*Creativity
*Critical Thinking
*Collaboration
*Cooperation
*Communication

One can say that Innovative Pedagogy is potential to guide teaching and transform learning.


Such sessions seems to be making sense for teachers who are passionate about teaching.

And yes,to make the connection with the student teacher need to be implementing some innovative ideas.

Innovative methods or ideas will be doing wodners.

What a teacher can take away from this workshop?
#Every child is unique.
#Everyone's perception is different.
#Imagination is different.

Teacher cannot keep on applying his/her old methods to teach the kids of this century..these kids 
*accessible to technology.
*Ready to explore.


Keeping all these in mind teacher have to keep on learning new teaching methodologies to bring out the uniqueness of every kid.

We cannot judge them based on their marks.
It's not at all necessary that a kid who fails in school will not be at good position tomorrow.
Ofcourse,yes ,they can be doing for what they are meant to be.

Every child is provied with some or the talent.
Some may be good in studies,other may be in games ,..etc..

So a teacher need to find out the students talent and give them a push with their encouraging words and this make wonders in many's lives.


This blog post is part of the blog challenge "Blogaberry Dazzle" hosted by Cindy D'silva



Thursday 16 June 2022

what do we look in Historic Movies ?

Today I went to see newly released movie called "Samrat Prithvi Raj" with my mom and aunt.
To be Frank i was bored and felt like "aur kitna time ?"
Can we learn history from such movies ?Does we can conclude that we know everything or much about after watching such movies?

Are such historic movies able to shed light on truth ..i e True history or they are being moulded for entertainment?

Can we say that we know everything about akbar,jodha, ..etc .
Does the research done by film producers were enough?
Are they able to send the right knowledge in the society??

Or



We need to see historic movies just for entertainment.
Shouldn't we learn from movies ??
Shouldn't we develop our knowledge about the historic character based on such movies ??

This blog post is part of the blog challenge "Blogaberry Dazzle" hosted by Cindy D'silva
 

Sunday 5 June 2022

A visit to -> Tehri Dam

Recently on our anniversary we had a chance to visit Tehri Dam.
I personally feel if my husband wouldn't have insisted to visit Tehri and haven't showed me the marvelous work of Engineering then my trip to Uttarakhand would have remained incomplete.
During my UPSC preparations,i have read much about the Tehri movements..Anti Tehri movement ..Sundarlal Bahuguna..and all but it was read from exam point of view nothing more than that.
Tehri Dam is an Engineering Marvel ..such a vast structure..which had both positive amd negative stories to its credit.
It is 2nd tallest dam of Asia,of about 260.5m(855ft).
Earlier, it was first in Asia but after China's dam Tehri came to the second position.
Tehri dam is a earth fill embankment dam on the confluence of Bhagirathi and Bhilangna rivers in Tehri-garhwal district in Uttarakhand,India.
It's a multi purpose dam contributing to the Electricity, Irrigation, drinking water and other needs of the nation.
Tehri Hydro Development Corporation (THDC) pvt ltd. Came into existence in 1988 to develop,operate and maintain the Tehri Hydro Power Complex and other Hydro Projects.

(The above picture is from Wikipedia and rest all are my own clicks).
This dam has been the object of protest from environmental groups and the people of Tehri and surrounding areas.
It's construction has relocated to almost 1,00,000 people.
Environmental concern has been raised from time to time as it is planned in the central Himalayan seismic gap,a major geological fault zone(as the region was the site of major earthquake of 1991).
Environmental activist like sundarlal Bahuguna,opposed to this project and went on to fast for 46 days which resulted in stopping the work of the dam for almost 70+ days.
Anti Tehri Dam Movement (ATDM) which was formed in 1978 organised demonstration,dharnas,pad yatras repeatedly to highlight the issues related to its construction.
The movement attempted to include the residents of the downstream region,who had been considered as the beneficiaries of dam into the movement by emphasising on the risk of flood if the dam collapses.
ATDM began to unite with other anti dam protest such as Anti Narmada movement and tried to grab the support of many journalists and experts.
In March 1992,a bus carrying the 16 people who were returning from the protest/movement fell from the cliff.Its is believed that it was the conspiracy of the group in support of the construction.
Slowly,the movement began to become sluggish and people started leaving their lands accepting the compensation offered by the government.
In sep 2003,the SC ordered that Tehri Dam was legal and the movement lost almost all the legal battles against the construction.

From 2000-2001,the administrative functions of the Tehri was transferred to New Tehri( a new town set up on the lines of old Tehri to give the same connection as old Tehri to its people).
All diversion tunnels were closed in November 2005 and the surrounding areas of Tehri were completely submerged under water.

Tehri Garhwal was ruled by Rajput Parmar(shah) Dynasty.Shah ruler constructed 110ft clock tower which is visible when water level goes down.
On the same pattern of Old Tehri ,New Tehri town was established. 
We went to New Tehri from Rishikesh on scooty driving for almost 70 km and stayed in Hotel shiv Palace.
Next day morning we went to see Tehri Dam which was almost 12-14km from their (i don't remember the exact distance).

My husband had a chance to see the dam during his college's industrial visit.so he took me to the point from where the dam can be seen and he went on to explain many things about the dam.

Then we met a soda wale bhaiya where we had soda and had a chance to interact with him.
Soda wale bhaiya told us that many people come with their children and grandchildren to show them their birth place which is now submerged.
He told that he have seen many people crying telling about their past to their offsprings.


From their we went on to go to water sports arena of the dam.
Yes, Government of Uttarakhand have promoted many water sports activities in the Tehri lake as tourism is the main source of revenue for the state.
These activities provide employment to local people attracting tourists.
This is the part visible and is said to be the king's palace which was at a height so it is not submerged yet.
 only visible lands or structure,rest everything is submerged.

There is also floating huts which is under the Le roi resorts.
We got a chance to see them from close while taking boat rides.
This set up is known as Little Maldives in India.
They are not yet fully developed (not fully occupied) as i felt it's not at all safe for  couples ..staying in the middle of a water body.
May be we may see them attracting more tourists towards them.

This blog post is part of the blog challenge "Blogaberry Dazzle" hosted by Cindy D'silva

Friday 3 June 2022

Solist - and that's me !!



These are few of the clicks ..from my gallery ..i love watching these moments .

Yess..i am SOLIST - a person who loves seeing sunset and sunrise.

Most of you might agree with me that.. we have become so busy in our lives that we don't find to live such moments.

I have a habit of capturing these moments so thought of sharing it here.
Though i am not good capturer...but i do it anyways 😅Hope you all will like it.

Thursday 2 June 2022

Friend circle !!

When you come to your own company....you just forget the world.
I came to my mom's place .. whenever I come here i tend to forget my other work.
As it happened today ...i forgot to complete my this week's blog.
when i got the reminder about the post.
I started writing while having dinner with family and friends.
I say ...Family and friends....as now my mom's frienda have become my friends.
It's true that ...once upon a time ...i had minimal conversation with my mom's friends but a stage comes on life when your mom becomes your bff ..along with her ...her friends became my friend.
Whenever i visit my mom...her group who are always ready with their bucket list gets activated.

Every day we try to meet/complete that list.


Seeing them enjoying ..i have seen her and her friends busy with their kids. .their education..their career.

But now when we all got settled..they started living their life..
It's true ...a time comes in life ...your mother becomes your best friend and it feels great seeing her happy doing things she loves.

Women tend to forget her wishes ...as she gets involved in her children.

 This blog post is part of the blog challenge "Blogaberry Dazzle" hosted by Cindy D'silva

Thursday 26 May 2022

Pihar urf Maika(mother's place)

That excitement you cannot match with anything when it's time to visit your parents.
You keep visualising how you will meet everyone.
Your heart seems to be full of (obviously it's full when with your partner and his family )love and a sense of freedom arrives in you.

When i posted a story on whatsapp ..one of my cousin he messaged that sasuraal jate ho tab chehre par alag ronak hoti hain and when you come to parents home your face have totally different glow.

I was like yar tu nahi samjhega (yar you will not understand) that happiness to come to your own place ..your own city (though you don't own it) but you feel connected whenever your city's name arises in any conversation.

So, yesterday i was traveling to my pihar. That's maika ... mother's place .. ofcourse father's place ...don't know why it is not called as father's place.it must be like parents place...your own place where you have spent major part of your life.

Place ..which is very very close to your heart..which can't be replaced by anything.. nothing can replace it .

And when you know that your whole family is waiting for you at the airport...you feel like yar kaash pankh lag jaye ..mein uddd jauu..jaldi se ..

I remembered...

"Pankh lag jate toh udd aati mein...🎶..."

I think every women can relate this ...

How many years have been to marriage ...but maika always stays the same...


Irreplaceable...

Incomparable....

This blog post is part of the blog challenge "Blogaberry Dazzle" hosted by Cindy D'silva

Wednesday 18 May 2022

scooty drive pahadon mein !!

Driving an Activa has always been my favourite..that's the reason i always goes out to get anything my mom says.
I love to drive and roam around the city completing the list of mom.

But i never imagined that i will drive it in steep slopes ...mountainous regions of uttarakhand.

When you have a best friend who loves to do all the crazy things you always wanted to do.
Then how can it be impossible to do which i have never imagined.

Having such a bff for life who can share the same wishlist and takes care to complete my wishlist along with his can be a blessings.

So 

It was an unplanned scooty drive in pahadon mein.

We took an access 125 on rent in Rishikesh..just to give a try ..we just went out of the hotel thinking what to do and where to go in Rishikesh as we have not planned or checked tourist spots in Rishikesh.

He always plans our each and every itinerary but this time it was impromptu.

Having No plans.. lead us to 
Scooty wala.

And we hired a scooty for 600/- just to explore rishikesh.
We informed him that we will return it by 9pm...on this he said bhaiya ji ..everyone says the same and they take it for 3-5 days.
We were a bit worried initially but later on we were fine with it .
While sitting on the rocks of ganga ghat ..he said what to do now..we have spent already almost 3 hours at the same place and i was like let's go back .there is nothing to explore in Rishikesh.

Suddenly he was like let's go to New Tehri  on a long drive on the curved road made by cutting through the big mountains.

Initially i was hesitant about the type of road ..whether we will be able to drive or not ??is it safe or not ??many questions popped through the mind.

He said he have checked everything and let's move .
So we left for New Tehri (~70km) from Rishikesh on a bike i.e. Access 125.

We were enjoying this ride.we wanted to reach the destination before it becomes dark.
So while going he drove and while coming back i drove through the curvy steepy highway.

We really enjoyed this...long i must say very very long drive.

We drove for approximately 450km.

Rishikesh -> New Tehri -> Tehri Dam  -> Chamba -> rishikesh.

We came back to rishikesh as we kept our luggage in the hotel we stayed in. We just took one dress for each of us and moved to Tehri.

So again 

We hired scooty more for 4days ..so tatally we hired it for 6days.
Again 

Rishikesh ->dehradun ->mussoorie,the queen of hills.

This blog post is part of the blog challenge "Blogaberry Dazzle" hosted by Cindy d'silva


Saturday 7 May 2022

A year to the Beautiful Beginning!!

How time flies ..!!

It's been a year ..


To 
The time when I saw you for the first time.
The moment you walked towards the mandap.
The moment when our eyes met for the first time.
The moment you holded my hand(hahah and ofcourse u trying to hold it tight kyunki pandit ji ne loose jo pakadwaya tha na 😅)
The moment we put the garland onto each other.

Like this ..there are uncountable moment ..emotions 
We were going through...those emotions..that nervousness..
And ofcourse that feeling the moment I saw u ..that he is the one with whom i was talking all these months.

I can't forget that spects moment ...when gudiya masi got my spects and kept in the shelf and you got up and got them to  me. Thinking that I might be facing issue without my spects.

There were so many ..so many ..emotions attached with this day when we began a new beginning.

And see today...i am overwhelmed to see you  .. receiving certificate.. knowledgeable person... accompanying you in your course.

I would like each of us to be part of each other's small steps in the same way as we have been doing until now.

You have thought me that

Love   

Love is 
* being present for each other support..though they may be very small steps at a time.
* Boosting each other's confidence.
*making each other realise that you are the best.
* Loving each other unconditionally.






Wednesday 20 April 2022

Mausam !!



Sometimes doing nothing is a great thing.

There comes a day from a hectic week when you don't feel like doing anything.
I wonder am i wasting time by not doing anything??

Then i tell myself ..no dear "Time spent on yourself is not the time wasted"

So one need to take their time out of their busy schedules and talk to self ...listen self ..spend time with self.
As your the first  best friend of yourself.The way we talk to others we need to talk to our self.

This time rejuvenates you to face the next day ..with a broader smile on your face.

Love every moment.

Sit a side and relax.

Doing nothing.

Feel yourself.

Love yourself.

Enjoy the weather.

Look at the tree from your window.

Enjoy each and every sip of the tea.

Life will be running my dear without you even realising how much far you have come that you can't turn back.

So make every moment count .

Take the path less taken.

Every little step matters my dear ..!!

Love your zindagi.

Wednesday 13 April 2022

Bond!

Staying away from you is how much difficult..it can never be explained.



Kabhi kabhi mere mann Mein yeh khayal aata hain ki kaise mujhe tum mil gaye ??
And kaise aur kyu mujhe teri itni aadat hogayi hain?
Ek waqt tha jab khush the hum akele hi, abb bas tere saath rehne ki tamannah hoti hain iss dil mein.

Yeh toh sach hi hain ki Dil toh pagsl Dil Deewana hain;
Bas ratt lagaye baithaa hain apne saawre ki.

Par yeh bechara bhi kya kare Hogaya hain isko toh pyaar sajna;

Darr lagta hain kabhi kabhi ..
Kya itna attachment sahi hain apne sawre se..

Par dil ka kya ..karu..
Yeh dil tera hain deewana ..tere bin maane na..

Mein prem ki deewani hoon...banni piya tore aawan ki aaas mein..

Mujhko toh rehna hain dil mein tere...rehna hain tere saath..abb bas yeh judaai sahi na jaye.


Picture from: @dshreeart Instagram page