Thursday 26 May 2022

Pihar urf Maika(mother's place)

That excitement you cannot match with anything when it's time to visit your parents.
You keep visualising how you will meet everyone.
Your heart seems to be full of (obviously it's full when with your partner and his family )love and a sense of freedom arrives in you.

When i posted a story on whatsapp ..one of my cousin he messaged that sasuraal jate ho tab chehre par alag ronak hoti hain and when you come to parents home your face have totally different glow.

I was like yar tu nahi samjhega (yar you will not understand) that happiness to come to your own place ..your own city (though you don't own it) but you feel connected whenever your city's name arises in any conversation.

So, yesterday i was traveling to my pihar. That's maika ... mother's place .. ofcourse father's place ...don't know why it is not called as father's place.it must be like parents place...your own place where you have spent major part of your life.

Place ..which is very very close to your heart..which can't be replaced by anything.. nothing can replace it .

And when you know that your whole family is waiting for you at the airport...you feel like yar kaash pankh lag jaye ..mein uddd jauu..jaldi se ..

I remembered...

"Pankh lag jate toh udd aati mein...🎶..."

I think every women can relate this ...

How many years have been to marriage ...but maika always stays the same...


Irreplaceable...

Incomparable....

This blog post is part of the blog challenge "Blogaberry Dazzle" hosted by Cindy D'silva

26 comments:

  1. I always wonder why we women have to leave our parental home and move to a new family, home and city.But i think in the next hundred years it will be the opposite :)

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  2. Maika is always a place which remains precious. Words fall short when we have to talk about our memories related to make. Enjoy your stay at your parents.

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  3. It has been long three years since I have visited maika. I agree there is no place like maika in the world. it uplift your mood instantly and we all recalled our childhood time when we visit maika.

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  4. Such a Beautiful post. I could relate to the sentiments. So many questions rising in my head asking for some answers.

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  5. Maika is a special place for every woman. Even though my maika is just ten mins away from my sasural I still feel so excited when I visit my maika.

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  6. Maika is always precious to us. Why only woman have to come to husbands house. I am always excited to go to maika. Feeling of relax and stress free, just sleep and do nothing😁😁 is the unique feeling.

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  7. That is so very true. The emotion is so high and so is excitement

    Sindhu

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  8. Right now I am in my parent's house and today is the last day here before I leave for Mumbai tomorrow. I can relate every bit of what you have written, almost feel the words.

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  9. I had loving in-laws but there is always a charm going to maika. Even more when they were hundreds of kilometers away.

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  10. This is a sweet and nostalgic post- I feel the same whenever I go to Calcutta

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  11. Mom's place is nothing but peace and harmony for most of us. But my mom lives in another country so it's difficult to meet her regularly.

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  12. This post must be favourite of every married woman .yes, its true happiness doubles when it comes to mayaka place . Me and my kids wait for holidays so we can pack bags and go to mom's place.

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  13. Such a cute post. I am sure most married ladies out there would relate to it.

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  14. Going to parents place fills heart with joy, the memories keep flashing. I am glad that recently I visited my parents and had content heart to heart talk.

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  15. No matter how many years pass by, your parental home will always hold a special place in your heart. Hear you completely.

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  16. Mother's place is the happiest zone for every girl and there is no doubt about it. Sweet post.

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  17. I Ajaay loved Near my parents home and visited often. Always excited to be there. It was calming. Note they are gone and I hope my daughters feel the same warmth And excitement to come home… brinda / ritecontent dot com

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  18. The poem is beautiful. I lost my parents at a young age and I never got to enjoy the maika thing but it is surely a beautiful thing.

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  19. It is place where you have spent your childhood and lots of memories attached to it. I can relate to it.

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  20. This post reminds me so many things, I literally left behind. Journey of any girl is not a straight road and you so well written.

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  21. I can totally totally relate to your sentiments Sonu cuz I feel the same or even more about my maaika... it is my first love... irreplaceable! I am just back from a month long stay there n it was awesome...
    Kaveri(writing my name as it says 'commenting as anonymous')

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  22. Pihar is a recharge point for a woman

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  23. Oh, the thought of visiting pihar makes me happy from within. I couldn't agree more with you, the emotions often overflow and heart starts singing at our maika :)

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  24. I so agree with each and every word you have written, you explained it so well. Seems like you have read my heart and poured it out. And yes, My myka to waits for me at airport even before We land. sach me "Pankh lag jate to ud jaati"

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  25. What a beautiful post. Reminded me of my mother's place.

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  26. What a sweet sentiment you have captured here!
    Noor

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